Are you suffering from a little dose of obsession? Are you
concerned that you're ruining your relationship with the man you love
because you can't stop obsessing over him? Even the ideal girlfriend can
suffer from this. A woman who is beautiful, intelligent and fun to
spend time with can just as easily destroy a relationship by being
clingy, overly inquisitive or nosy. If this sounds like you, it's time
to wake up before you lose the guy of your dreams.
Obsession is a serious problem in relationships. If you spend every second of every day thinking about your guy, you are obsessed. If you can't go a day without seeing him or a matter of hours without calling him, you are endangering your relationship by being neurotic. You need to understand that the apocalypse is not coming just because you haven't talked to your guy in a little while. It's normal for couples to spend time apart. It's even healthy!
So how do you combat obsessive urges and curb that behavior? The first step is to make sure that you are involved in your own life. Don't let your world completely revolve around anyone, especially a man. Spend time with friends and family, pour yourself into projects at work or find a new hobby. It is important to stay busy so that you don't even have time to think about him. Plus, it will make you a more well-rounded person.
When you have interesting things, projects and people to occupy your time you will be less likely to obsessively call or text him, or worse, badger him into seeing you. Try not to force your guy into changing into a person that he will never be. Even if you are jealous of the time he spends with his friends, that time is necessary. Try to understand that he can't change his life entirely just to spend time with you.
If you act too obsessively around your guy, he will get frustrated and will probably leave you. Give him time to be himself and the space he needs to do it in. Even though you may want to spend every moment with your man, some alone time will do you both good in the long run. Just remember that maintaining your own friends and hobbies is the healthiest way to live. Your guy will appreciate having a woman by his side that leads an interesting life.
Obsession is a serious problem in relationships. If you spend every second of every day thinking about your guy, you are obsessed. If you can't go a day without seeing him or a matter of hours without calling him, you are endangering your relationship by being neurotic. You need to understand that the apocalypse is not coming just because you haven't talked to your guy in a little while. It's normal for couples to spend time apart. It's even healthy!
So how do you combat obsessive urges and curb that behavior? The first step is to make sure that you are involved in your own life. Don't let your world completely revolve around anyone, especially a man. Spend time with friends and family, pour yourself into projects at work or find a new hobby. It is important to stay busy so that you don't even have time to think about him. Plus, it will make you a more well-rounded person.
When you have interesting things, projects and people to occupy your time you will be less likely to obsessively call or text him, or worse, badger him into seeing you. Try not to force your guy into changing into a person that he will never be. Even if you are jealous of the time he spends with his friends, that time is necessary. Try to understand that he can't change his life entirely just to spend time with you.
If you act too obsessively around your guy, he will get frustrated and will probably leave you. Give him time to be himself and the space he needs to do it in. Even though you may want to spend every moment with your man, some alone time will do you both good in the long run. Just remember that maintaining your own friends and hobbies is the healthiest way to live. Your guy will appreciate having a woman by his side that leads an interesting life.
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