If you are looking for someone to date, what qualities are
important to have a lasting relationship? How someone looks, the color
of their hair, their age, height, and weight, may seem important, but
they are not characteristics with any lasting value, nor do they
determine whether you will be at all happy.
Chemistry is important, but it can only last as long as you also like and admire each other. Following that, what makes a date last forever? It goes way beyond looks, external qualities, and chemistry. Consider this list.
People who are:
1. Allowing
Relationships are easiest with a person who does not need to manipulate or control other people. When you can be just the way you are and the other person is not always finding fault with you, life is smooth. When you can allow someone else to have his or her own idiosyncrasies, your life will not be a struggle.
2. Kind
Dating someone who is kind, generous without expecting something in return, and has time for old people, little children, and animals, will be someone you can count on in good times and in bad. Someone who also knows how to accept gifts and compliments from others shows they are mature enough to have a reciprocal relationship.
3. Not judgmental
A relationship with someone who does not need to gossip, criticize, or judge others unfairly, gives you a person who is peaceful to be around. Dating negative people who look at others with an unforgiving slant will drain your energy and optimism. Sooner or later, their critical eye will focus on you, which will cause a meltdown.
4. Not seeking conflict
If you are dating someone who is always looking for a fight; an altercation; a problem to get riled up about, your life will be a constant crisis. These people think this is just "life" and don't understand that they incite or attract this kind of behavior.
5. Into the moment
A relationship with someone who is not absorbed in the past or constantly worried about the future has the ability to be present in the moment. They are content with life and feel connected to nature. Someone who stops to admire the sunset, the rain drops on the leaves and grass, and the new blooms on plants or trees is a person who is more likely to be focused on your strengths and positive qualities rather than what's "wrong" with you.
6. Appreciative of life
When you are dating someone who appreciates the good things in life rather than complains about what they don't have, you are going to receive great benefits. Being around this type of person brings out the sun.
7. Comfortable in their own skin
If your date is trying to be an imitation of anyone, you don't really know who you're out with-and they don't know who you're out with either. It's difficult to relate to someone who isn't really there. Someone who is comfortable about where they're from, what they do, and what they've accomplished is a confident person.
8. Humorous and happy
When you are in a relationship with someone who can laugh at themselves, everyone can relax. Furthermore-everyone else loves to be around them too. Humor lightens up any situation. People with a sense of humor are very lovable-and memorable.
These are the qualities that you want in a relationship. They also make you dateable, and make you someone others want to be around-forever.
Chemistry is important, but it can only last as long as you also like and admire each other. Following that, what makes a date last forever? It goes way beyond looks, external qualities, and chemistry. Consider this list.
People who are:
1. Allowing
Relationships are easiest with a person who does not need to manipulate or control other people. When you can be just the way you are and the other person is not always finding fault with you, life is smooth. When you can allow someone else to have his or her own idiosyncrasies, your life will not be a struggle.
2. Kind
Dating someone who is kind, generous without expecting something in return, and has time for old people, little children, and animals, will be someone you can count on in good times and in bad. Someone who also knows how to accept gifts and compliments from others shows they are mature enough to have a reciprocal relationship.
3. Not judgmental
A relationship with someone who does not need to gossip, criticize, or judge others unfairly, gives you a person who is peaceful to be around. Dating negative people who look at others with an unforgiving slant will drain your energy and optimism. Sooner or later, their critical eye will focus on you, which will cause a meltdown.
4. Not seeking conflict
If you are dating someone who is always looking for a fight; an altercation; a problem to get riled up about, your life will be a constant crisis. These people think this is just "life" and don't understand that they incite or attract this kind of behavior.
5. Into the moment
A relationship with someone who is not absorbed in the past or constantly worried about the future has the ability to be present in the moment. They are content with life and feel connected to nature. Someone who stops to admire the sunset, the rain drops on the leaves and grass, and the new blooms on plants or trees is a person who is more likely to be focused on your strengths and positive qualities rather than what's "wrong" with you.
6. Appreciative of life
When you are dating someone who appreciates the good things in life rather than complains about what they don't have, you are going to receive great benefits. Being around this type of person brings out the sun.
7. Comfortable in their own skin
If your date is trying to be an imitation of anyone, you don't really know who you're out with-and they don't know who you're out with either. It's difficult to relate to someone who isn't really there. Someone who is comfortable about where they're from, what they do, and what they've accomplished is a confident person.
8. Humorous and happy
When you are in a relationship with someone who can laugh at themselves, everyone can relax. Furthermore-everyone else loves to be around them too. Humor lightens up any situation. People with a sense of humor are very lovable-and memorable.
These are the qualities that you want in a relationship. They also make you dateable, and make you someone others want to be around-forever.
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