Tao of Badass Review

Remember the last time you weren't quite sure about yourself during an interaction? Doesn't matter if it was during a date or at a club.

Maybe you were getting mixed signals from the girl, and you were going back and forth between confidence and confusion. Maybe something just made you self conscious.

Either way, you really wanted to get that confident state back. It was confidence that got you as far as it did...

Keeping that state is the trick in any interaction. You really have to keep up a confident state no matter what's happening in the environment.

Here's a really powerful trick for pulling that off. It'll blow your mind the first time that you try it. Thing is, you have to actually try it if you want to see it work. Just reading about it won't help you!

Next time you hit one of those uncertain moments, there's a really easy way to keep that uncertainty going. How? Just remind yourself of the hottest girl you've ever slept with.

Imagine her face and body... the hair, the curves, the feel of her skin. Remember the energy between the two of you, what it felt like when you both knew the game was on. Remember how she looked at you, and how you looked at her.

Now keep that image in your mind.

Tell yourself that if you got her, you can get this one.

As you do it, notice your internal state change. You start getting excited. You start smiling more. An aura of confidence and certainty just surrounds your entire body.

Keep that up until you've reached a point of really solid certainty, where you know everything is just awesome.

All of a sudden your body language, actions, and tonality are totally different. She can feel it too! All off a sudden you're acting like someone she's gone home with...

... and this massively increases your chances. Why? Because guess what, she saw your state slipping too. Girls are really good at seeing these things. As soon as your state slipped, her own state started going south too. When you recovered, though, hers went through the roof.

A guy whose energy just collapses in the middle of a conversation isn't very attractive. Someone who'll keep providing really great energy no matter what happens, though, is an awesome catch.

Why? Because if you can keep it up now, that means she'll probably continue feeling fantastic being around you later. Nothing sucks more than deciding to spend more time with a guy only to have them turn out nothing like the cool dude they seemed to be before. On the other hand, even if both of you know it's an act -- the guy equivalent of wearing makeup -- if you can recover like that she knows the good times will stay around.

Let's face it. Unless you're a celebrity, great emotions and the hope of even better ones later are probably the whole reason she's talking to you in the first place. If you can deliver, you just made yourself Mr. Right (or Mr. Right Now).

By the way, do you want the simple secret for approaching any woman, anywhere and know exactly what to say to get her number?