It's easy to make the assumption that you will never be able to improve your ability to flirt with women, but that is the kind of thinking that you really need to avoid if you want to get better at attracting with women. You have to at least believe that you do have the chance to improve your ability to flirt or else you won't even work on getting better at it at all. Even though you may not be getting the reactions from women that you want, all of that can change with a little bit of time and experience.

Here are some flirting tips that can help you improve your abilities and the reactions that you get from women:

1. When you are trying to make conversation with a woman, try to keep the conversation as light as possible at first.

Talking about heavy topics is not usually a good idea. As a rule of thumb, those are the kinds of topics that you really want to avoid as much as you can. Try to keep the conversation light and focus on making a good impression on her. If you can do that, you'll be able to get her to flirt back and forth with you.

2. Most men don't make enough eye contact, you want to be one of the ones that does.

When it comes to attraction, making eye contact can go a long way. It can give a woman a feeling of being connected to you right away. That's a good thing. That's the way that you want her to feel when she is with you. So, don't be afraid to make eye contact with a woman and use that eye contact to build up the attraction between you and her.

3. It's okay to use physical flirting, as long as it doesn't come across as you just trying to cop a feel.

When two people touch, a feeling can be created that makes it feel like it is "meant to be." Of course, that doesn't mean that you just want to try and cop a feel. You want to be sure that you are welcome to touch her. Physical flirtations can go a long way towards escalating things with a woman if done right.

Yes, you can get better at making women feel attracted to you, even if you don't feel like that is possible right now. Experience helps a little bit, knowing the right things to do helps even more.

There are many ways to flirt with a woman; however doing it the right way will ensure a successful and positive hook-up and possibly more, if you're lucky! Flirting in itself is an art and as the saying goes, "he who stutter, melt like butter". Actually, that is my saying and I am damn proud of it. Why you ask? Because it is 100% true! Women are mind readers and want the utmost of confidence in their men. If you stutter or hesitate when talking (flirting) with them you will show a huge lack of confidence and ruin your chances with them forever. You see, women have built-in confidence radar that will hone in on you like a heat-seeking missile. They know exactly what you are thinking because women are experts at reading your body language.

That is where online flirting comes in. You see, women can't really see your facial expressions when typing at their computer in a chat room or exchanging emails or notes on a dating site. This gives you an excellent chance to impress the ladies and gives you ample opportunity to be the proverbial Casanova of sorts in the art of online flirting. In fact, even the shyest and most timid of men can be great at online flirting. To sum it all up, you have an advantage with online flirting that you just don't get when face to face with a woman. Yes, you heard that right. Even if you are the lamest of the lame at landing a good woman you still have a chance at impressing the one girl you've had your eye on. Read on Rico Suave...

1. Listen to her. Are you guys listening to me? Well, this one is so simple that many guys just forget all about it. All you have to do is take some of that cotton out of your ears and listen to the lady. That's right! It is so important to just shut your mouth and listen to what she has to say. This one step makes a woman feel like she's interesting and more importantly, that you are interested in her!

2. Do not be a jerk. Don't talk about sex and how big you think you may be. In other words do not be rude. Be nice. To be a successful flirt you have to respect her position on things, such as how she is feeling in general. If she does not respond to you then you still have to go out like a man and be respectful to her. Don't go down like a complete jerk! You give the rest of us guys a bad rap. If she is not interested in you then take it with a grain of salt and move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea (trust me on that one). By the way, if you are consistently getting rejection after rejection then reconsider your approach and start at step 1.

3. Compliment the lady. Yes, you have to send her, at the least, a couple of compliments. Why you say? I'll tell you why - you are simply being a good man and showing some respect. Women love to get compliments and know that they are respected and recognized. Be sincere in your compliments and it will work wonders. Don't look for a response either because most women are not geared to give an immediate response to a compliment as that is their nature (or maybe she has dated all jerks in the past and you are the first to compliment her). If you want to open the doors and make her feel good about herself then send her some compliments to boost her confidence.

4. Be confident, be positive and most of all, relax. Be comfortable communicating with her, have fun with her and be entertaining. Don't overdo the jokes but just show her that you're comfortable talking with her. Remember, women are very attracted to a guy that knows how to communicate his feelings. To sum, it up, make her want to talk with you again.

5. For all of you online flirts out there, remember to send the lady an email saying thanks. This is huge as most guys won't even do this. Once again, a man's nature is to move on to the next prey. She does not want to feel like you only talked to her to get into her pants and when she got a little defensive you bolted and forgot all about her. Send a simple email or even one of those e-cards and tell her what a pleasure it was talking with her. I guarantee you that 9 out of 10 guys will not send her anything.

Most importantly, slow down gentlemen. Rome wasn't built in a day. To get a great woman you need to put some work into it.