There are many ways to flirt with a woman; however doing it the right way will ensure a successful and positive hook-up and possibly more, if you're lucky! Flirting in itself is an art and as the saying goes, "he who stutter, melt like butter". Actually, that is my saying and I am damn proud of it. Why you ask? Because it is 100% true! Women are mind readers and want the utmost of confidence in their men. If you stutter or hesitate when talking (flirting) with them you will show a huge lack of confidence and ruin your chances with them forever. You see, women have built-in confidence radar that will hone in on you like a heat-seeking missile. They know exactly what you are thinking because women are experts at reading your body language.

That is where online flirting comes in. You see, women can't really see your facial expressions when typing at their computer in a chat room or exchanging emails or notes on a dating site. This gives you an excellent chance to impress the ladies and gives you ample opportunity to be the proverbial Casanova of sorts in the art of online flirting. In fact, even the shyest and most timid of men can be great at online flirting. To sum it all up, you have an advantage with online flirting that you just don't get when face to face with a woman. Yes, you heard that right. Even if you are the lamest of the lame at landing a good woman you still have a chance at impressing the one girl you've had your eye on. Read on Rico Suave...

1. Listen to her. Are you guys listening to me? Well, this one is so simple that many guys just forget all about it. All you have to do is take some of that cotton out of your ears and listen to the lady. That's right! It is so important to just shut your mouth and listen to what she has to say. This one step makes a woman feel like she's interesting and more importantly, that you are interested in her!

2. Do not be a jerk. Don't talk about sex and how big you think you may be. In other words do not be rude. Be nice. To be a successful flirt you have to respect her position on things, such as how she is feeling in general. If she does not respond to you then you still have to go out like a man and be respectful to her. Don't go down like a complete jerk! You give the rest of us guys a bad rap. If she is not interested in you then take it with a grain of salt and move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea (trust me on that one). By the way, if you are consistently getting rejection after rejection then reconsider your approach and start at step 1.

3. Compliment the lady. Yes, you have to send her, at the least, a couple of compliments. Why you say? I'll tell you why - you are simply being a good man and showing some respect. Women love to get compliments and know that they are respected and recognized. Be sincere in your compliments and it will work wonders. Don't look for a response either because most women are not geared to give an immediate response to a compliment as that is their nature (or maybe she has dated all jerks in the past and you are the first to compliment her). If you want to open the doors and make her feel good about herself then send her some compliments to boost her confidence.

4. Be confident, be positive and most of all, relax. Be comfortable communicating with her, have fun with her and be entertaining. Don't overdo the jokes but just show her that you're comfortable talking with her. Remember, women are very attracted to a guy that knows how to communicate his feelings. To sum, it up, make her want to talk with you again.

5. For all of you online flirts out there, remember to send the lady an email saying thanks. This is huge as most guys won't even do this. Once again, a man's nature is to move on to the next prey. She does not want to feel like you only talked to her to get into her pants and when she got a little defensive you bolted and forgot all about her. Send a simple email or even one of those e-cards and tell her what a pleasure it was talking with her. I guarantee you that 9 out of 10 guys will not send her anything.

Most importantly, slow down gentlemen. Rome wasn't built in a day. To get a great woman you need to put some work into it.

Life can be really boring and lonely without a special someone but to some people finding that special someone is not easy. Attracting women is so easy for some men while for others, it is something that they find themselves failing over and over again. Some men have that natural charisma to attract women effortlessly but others have to work hard for it. Do you want to get the attention of gorgeous women and put an end to your series of failures with women? Keep reading to know how to attract women like magnets.

Understand that women do not just go for looks. Many men lose their confidence because they have this mentality that only handsome men can get the attention of gorgeous women. This way of thinking will just ruin your chances in attracting women because you will get scared and will appear like a man with low self-confidence. If you will just overcome this kind of thinking, it will be easier to attract women. Most women do not just go for physical looks; they are more attracted to the good qualities men possess. It may be true that good-looking men will turn women's heads, but that doesn't mean that they have the desire for a relationship with those men. It takes more than good looks to make women to desire and become attracted to men.

Good grooming and good hygiene. Good grooming is always important if you want to get the attention of gorgeous women. Women care a lot about good grooming and hygiene, they want their men to be tidy and well-groomed. You have to be clean and smell good. Shower everyday or as often as you can, trim your nails, manage your facial hair and get a good hair cut. It is also important to dress appropriately and develop a good sense of style with the way you dress to look really good, manly and attractive.

Good physique. To get the attention of gorgeous women, you must maintain at least a good shape. A handsome face is an inborn physical quality that not all men can have but a good shape is something that almost all men can have if they will just work on it. A fat belly or tummy is not really attractive and if you are on the heavy side, you need to work out and lose those extra pounds if you really want to become a woman magnet. Maintaining a good physique will not only make you attractive but it will also make you feel good about yourself. A good body shape can boost your confidence and can make you look good.

Believe in yourself. A man who is confident and believes in himself is attractive. Women are drawn to men who are comfortable with their own skin and in control. If you do not believe in yourself, who will? It is you who will first put value on yourself before anyone can see you as someone worth knowing. Learn to be confident and appreciate your worth. A man who believes in himself is confident, secured, know what he is doing and can handle himself. A person with these traits can give women a feeling of security and women love to be with a man who can give them that kind of feeling.

Romantic. Most women love romance books and movies because most women are hopeless romantic. It may sound corny but those romantic scenes in books and movies can make women's heart flutter and they fantasize about them. Most women believe in fairy tales and would love to be treated like princesses. It is important that you know how to acknowledge how special a person is and you know how to personally express your feelings. If you are a romantic guy who knows how to make a woman's heart flutter, you will definitely get the attention of gorgeous women.

In control of your life. Do you think a woman would want to be with a man who cannot even hold a good job and financially unstable? If you cannot handle your own life, how can you handle a relationship? You do not have to own a company or be a super rich guy but being responsible and in control of your own life are important if you want to get the attention of gorgeous women. A man whose life is in order, maintains a good career or a job and in control of his finances is attractive.

A good sense of humor. Women want to feel at ease or comfortable around men and the best way to make women feel at ease with you is by making her laugh. There are men who can easily make a woman laugh and if you are not one of those men, you have to develop a good sense of humor to make women laugh. Read books or observe those people who can easily make women laugh. You may feel awkward at first or may fail a few times but with constant practice, sense of humor is something that anybody can learn.