Tao of Badass Review

If you are looking for a date there is a reason why. Only you know the real reason. You could be just divorced, just broken up, tired of being single, whatever the case when trying to find a date there is only one mindset. You must be able to be honest with yourself. I'm not saying that you are one, but a lot of people struggle with that basic first step. Being honest with yourself can be very very difficult if you have a lot of negativity in your past. You didn't necessarily have to be the one to initiate that negativity, but some people tend to try and ignore or block out this negativity and this in turn tends to have negative side effects.

So. We have that. The mindset is very important because once you have your mind made up you can accomplish anything. So when you go out to public places you will be in a state of mind to be open and friendly. This shows in your attitude and the way you carry yourself. You can't be angry and mean if you are trying to go on a date with new people. You must be yourself too though so if you are naturally mean and angry then you should work on that. Do some woo saahhs or something to get that negative energy out your system. But for those few who don't have anger issues, you should be going out to different public places with an open mind about meeting new people. You never know who that next person you meet may be.

When you are with your family and or friends don't be shamed to put it out there. Let people know. Get the word going that you are on the lookout for 'the one'. You never know who might try and play matchmaker on your behalf. Spontaneous connections can sometimes be the best connections of a life time. You never know who you will meet when you go through other people, but it would be safe to assume that whoever you are introduced to will be safer than meeting a TOTAL stranger to go on a date with that you don't know and no one you know knows them either.

Once you finally do meet this person don't think too much about trying not to be nervous. That is exactly when you are going to get nervous. Especially when start to fantasize about going on that first date. Remember just because introductions have been made the date hasn't and there is actually still time left for you to get rejected. This is where your state of mind plays a really big role. This is a vital part of how well you can be your actual real self in a first time impression situation. Intense. But for the person who has never had a problem with shyness this isn't so intense.