Tao of Badass Review

Are you the kind of woman who constantly needs to be with her man? Do you find yourself worrying if he doesn't respond to your messages right away or answer your phone calls? Do you try to keep in contact with him at all hours of the day, regardless of his or your other obligations? Playing the needy girlfriend can destroy an otherwise healthy relationship. Nothing will send a guy running more than a woman who clings to him like the world will end if he's not around. He'll feel suffocated, and he will want out.

It's important to be realistic when in a relationship. You must acknowledge that you are being too clingy and asking too much of your man before you wreck what you have. A lot of neediness stems from a low self-worth, so your first step in improving the situation is improving your view of yourself. Make a point to focus on your best qualities. Taking the time to dress yourself up every day can help to boost your confidence. Taking up a new hobby can help give you something else to think about while you have something fun to do.

Don't sit around and wait for your guy to call you or take you out. Make plans of your own! Spend more time with friends and family that you care about, or put more effort into a project at work. Once you have activities that keep you occupied and entertained, you will feel better about yourself and you won't need the company of a man to feel fulfilled.

If you're the type of woman who gets nervous when he doesn't respond to your messages or calls right away, you have to be more rational. He's a person with his own life, too! Allow him time to be himself and be with his friends and family, as well. Just because he doesn't answer on the first ring doesn't mean he doesn't care about you, it just means that he has friends, a career and hobbies of his own.

You must recognize that your neediness will be the death of your relationship if you allow it to spiral out of control. Address the underlying insecurities that cause you to feel like you need to be in contact with him at all times. Spend time building on your strengths and enjoying life. You will grow as a person and he will want to be with you even more. No man wants his girlfriend to be clingy, so you need to learn to be independent and confident on your own. You don't need a man to validate you, so why put that pressure on him?