Tao of Badass Review

Are you good at talking on the phone with guys or do you tense up before dialing? Did you know that you can strengthen your relationship through phone calls? The phone is a wondrous example of technology bring us closer together. If you freeze up when you're on the phone with a guy or overdo it by calling too often, it can be detrimental to the relationship, especially if you two are just getting to know each other.

Have you been calling him regularly? More than once a day? This can be dangerous to the relationship because you might scare him away. If you can't seem to judge how often is acceptable to talk to your man on the phone, try letting him set the pace. Wait for him to call you so that you don't come on too strong and disrupt his life. If you constantly have to be in contact with him, he may become irritated. You need to leave him time for himself. Everybody needs to spend some time on their career and with their own friends. This is especially true if you are in the beginning stages of a romantic relationship.

Knowing how to communicate efficiently when on the phone with a guy you're dating or interested in can be the spark that ignites a strong relationship or the first nail in its coffin. When he calls you, act casual but interested. Don't talk to him while you're watching television or washing dishes; this is rude. On the other hand, don't drop everything just to pick up the phone - let him know that you will call him back when you are finished with what you are doing.

Be flirty and fun in the conversation. Make sure that you don't dominate the conversation and let him lead into topics he is interested in. If he sounds busy or distracted, let him off the line to do what he needs to do. Don't drag out phone calls because it will only frustrate him. Think of phone calls as a prelude to a future conversation in person, and use them sparingly.

Talking to a guy on the phone is really quite easy if you don't overthink it. Wait for him to call you, be casual, and let the conversation end naturally. Proper phone etiquette with a man you're interested in can be the difference between getting a second date and scaring him off.